FAqs


  • What can I expect in a free consultation?

    Melinda provides information about the options for people to get a divorce or a legal separation. If a caller provides some details about their situation, Melinda is happy to provide related legal information and transparent costs expectations. Melinda will consult over Zoom or the phone.  Call or text 916-835-5635 to contact Melinda about a free consultation and to learn more.

  • What are the different ways to get a divorce or legal separation in California?

    If you are at the trailhead of divorce, there are four different paths you can take.



    The 1st Path is one where you can do it yourself. There is usually a class at the family law facilitator’s office at the local courthouse where you can get information to help you obtain a divorce. You could also work with a Registered Legal Document Assistant to get your paperwork completed.  You still have to deal with the court and may have hearings in a public forum.  Most couples desire more confidentiality, guidance and support, so Path #2 is more appealing.



    Path #2 is to stay out of court and mediate with Melinda. I help clients all over California and take care of my clients from A to Z by helping them make all of the decisions necessary to finish their divorce or legal separation by providing legal information. I also take care of their paperwork. One of my goals is to help my clients save time, money, and stress. If you have children, even adult children, hiring a divorce mediator allows couples to build a strong co-parenting relationship. 



    The 3rd Path is where you each hire a lawyer but still avoid court using the Collaborative Law process. One website where you can find more information is: https://sacramentocollaborativedivorce.com/. Like mediation, the collaborative approach also helps couples build a strong co-parenting relationship.



    The 4th Path is the adversarial path where you each hire your own attorney and argue in court over the course of many months or years. The process is designed to fracture the parties forever. It is also usually the longest, most adversarial, and most expensive option. Litigation can take 18 months to three years in most countries, in my experience. 



    Contact Melinda of Finding Common Ground Mediation & Law Services today to learn more about your options and expected costs.

  • What is mediation, and how does it differ from going to court?

    Mediation is a collaborative process where a neutral third party helps you reach agreements without litigation, saving time and reducing conflict.

  • How long does the mediation process usually take?

    The duration varies depending on the complexity, but many mediations conclude within a few sessions.


  • Is mediation confidential?

    Yes, all discussions in mediation are confidential and cannot be used in court.

  • Do both parties need to agree to mediation?

    While both parties’ willingness is ideal, courts may order mediation in family disputes.

  • Can mediation handle all issues in a divorce?

    Mediation can address most issues, including custody, support, and property division, but some cases may require additional legal steps.

  • How experienced are you as a mediator?

    I bring over 28 years of family law and mediation expertise in Sacramento.